Monday, 24 February 2014

Blogspot1: Life of a Twin

I don’t have any sibling or friends that have a twin sibling. How they live with there twin? How they treat each other? They can insult each other face? I don’t have any idea how they can survive everyday seeing there like face. It's so amazing seeing twin in the mall or even at the park. It sounds funny so I take my mind to take this research so that I can have same schema or background knowledge with the twins in this earth.




I found an article entitled “How to live life with as atwin” by Teresa.  In this article, the writer give steps how twin live. That you must share things like clothes, shoes, food and toys. Because they are twins, they want to have what there twin have. And probably understand why they need to share their things. Life as twin have an inevitable question “Which one’s which?”  Your parents and your long time friends may recognize you quickly but other can not. Sooner, twin learn how to be independent. In fact, they will separate because when they get old they will have there own life. It must learn how to live without your partner or your best bud twin.
 
According toTeresa "Living with a twin can be difficult at times. Sometimes, the attention you get from others can be overwhelming, and sometimes you can even stand each  other!" I don't have any siblings or friends that have twins. When I have knowledge about twin, I realized that there life is so hard. That you must care for your twin and always share things. Sometimes, tou can be bother by the people who is around you and always ask which one's which?





I read an article entitled “Partners for life: TheExperience of being twin” by Linda Marks. In this article, Linda interview the identical twins, Derek and Geoffrey. They stated the love of being their brother  and most intimate relationship in their lives. Being in twin, they gave each other comfort, love, care and intellectual stimulation.  They make a powerful presence and happiness in their family. When they grow up, they will separate not like when they are little boy they are so close like no one can separate them. They had fear of it that they will separate, some people don't understand that but with a twin it's different. 

According to Linda "The level of intimacy and connection commonly experienced between twin is a foundation on which to build other relationships" The closeness of their relationship may create another good relationship for them for that's the reason why some of them are stick with a good relationship. Having a twin brother or sister can provide happiness in family because of their uniqueness. Because they have same face and body and they can have instincts to each other. So that they can easily how the feeling of one's another. It so cute to have a twin, you always have a partner and never be alone in your life.




Being twin is different for us. I don't know how to feel with having a twin. But in my research, I've so many things I learned while im doing this. Being twin is like your best friends, you share things and foods. But like in twin, your best friends don't have a same face with yours. In twins, even they have same face or looks they have an individual attitudes or personalities. Some twin, have a hard life being with their twin sibling because they have competitors in their lives. Sometimes they have obligation to care each other. Some people judge twin because they think they have same interest and some characteristics. So know, i feel I'm so lucky enough because I'm individual in my life. Twin is not a sin, just live your life right and never underestimate other people around you.




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